How To Treat really Annoying People

Have you ever had that particular person that has annoyed you to the heights of it. Its either the person is talkative or says the wrong things at the wrong times and you just cant stand that person. Have you had such a person in your life? Well everybody has in one time or the other encountered a very annoying person that attaches theirself to them. Even you at one point or the other become annoying. These tips are steps to help overcome annoying people.


BE SERIOUS AROUND THEM.

That is a start-up to use against those who are not intentionally annoying. Laughing with someone who clearly annoys you will give the person more leverage to annoy you the more because he believes the both of you are 'cool' with everything he does. Now, whenever the person comes around, dont be unfriendly, but dont be unnecessarily 'jolly' around him. This will go a long way to show them that you mean business.


AVOID TOPICS THAT YOU KNOW WILL ANNOY YOU.

Now some of these guys just annoy you with their opinions about something or their disagreement for your dislike about something. Let's say you love Chelsea and the person is a Leicester fan or you love red lipstick and the person loves Pink lipstick. You might be constantly annoyed by the way the person counters your opinion or how ge expresses his without caring of others. To avoid getting annoyed, avoid such topics entirely. Or if the 'annoyer' tries to bring it up, change topic ASAP. Check something like this out.

ANNOYER: Bruh Chelsea is sooo      good these days but Leicester is better.
YOU:Probably.
ANNOYER:I thought you were a Chelsea fan, you're now gradually realising you support losers eh?
YOU: (giggle) How about the party last night. Enjoyed it?

See?! The conversation changes quickly!


IF ANNOYANCE GETS EXTREME, AVOID THE PERSON.

Not everybody likes to be avoided. It makes them feel unwanted, kills self esteem, makes them feel inferior. To avoid making your annoyer feel like this, you dont totally avoid, you avoid the person for a while. Now it does not matter if the person notices you have been avoiding him, because if he notices, its all for the good since he might ask himself questions and straighten his tracks.



DO NOT HIT. DO NOT HIT. DO NOT HIT.

Some people will annoy you to the greatest of heights and at times you just want to throw a 'light' punch or a slap. That never works, unless you are dealing with a youngster who easily reacts positively to hits. Hitting an agemate for his annoyance is out of it. This is because hiting will onlu prompt him to increase his annoyance. I mean look at it, if you hit someone, he definitely wants to get back at you so he just increase his annoyanmeter.


TALK TO THE PERSON.

Maybe this person is not usually annoying and can actually be reasonable. This means you have a chance to sit and tell the person that this or that is not good to you and that it in fact annoys you. Unless the person is straight stupid or just is not human.


LEAVE WHEN YOU CAN NO LONGER TAKE IT.

If somebody just gives you more than you can take, try leaving the environment. This does not make you a loser, it just shows you are mature and not in the mood for such things. Immediately you try your best and you can no longer handle it, leave. You might not even have to apologise later, just stand and leave.

With these tips, that really annoying one will either stop annoying you, or will be out of your space.